Is oral sex really considered as sex?
Far: It depends how old you are. If you’re under 18 then the answer is yes. If you’re over 18 then the answer is FUCK NO…
Jen: Well, if you suck dick in lieu of sexual intercourse, you are still no virgin. Of course this would aim to open a whole avenue of questions, but if we are speaking male on female – hell to the no!
TechBabe: I’m kinda’ on the fence with this one. I’d actually say “yes” if you squirted. But then again, good penetration must be in order. So if oral sex doesn’t equate to real sex, then that would mean I’m okay with my lover/partner to eat at any pink taco stand as he pleases, assuming we were monogamous. Hmmm…I’d say yes, if I was in a relationship. But FUCK NO if I wasn’t! (Hahaha…I said ‘but fuck.’)
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This definitely depends on the situation. I think I’m with TechBabe. Anyone eats at my girl’s “pink taco stand” besides me and there will be some serious problems for all involved. If I’m single and all that goes on is oral, I can’t ever say I hit that, so I guess I can’t call it sex, either
Pink taco stand, heh. I’m going to bed soon, I think I’ll have pleasant dreams now. Sex? Definitely!
It’s a “pink” area…not black, not white, hopefully not grey!
I say “oral sex” = foreplay, even if you squirt.
Fil, you are spot on.
Oral sex is oral sex. Sexual intercourse is sexual intercourse. Both are sex acts. A sex act, is SEX.
Scott, actually following your thoughts logically would lead to “A sex act is a sex act.
just saying…
But a sex act is a sex act. And a blue sky is a blue sky.
I’m missing your point here.
“Oral sex is oral sex. Sexual intercourse is sexual intercourse. Both are sex acts. A sex act, is SEX.” <- thats my point
Come on guys, this was clearly established by a certain W. Clinton: Remember the words “I did not have sexual relations with that woman”
And it was further reiterated to me when I heard the words “Thank you for not having an affair with me”. This after receiving the most spectacular blow job I have ever had
So, no. Oral sex is not sex. At least ways not as defined by a former President of the United States or a very special woman I know
Actually Bill Clinton seemed to pick up on this bizarre definition that cropped up with teenagers beginning in 1980s and continues to this day..
Oh, yeah, it’s sex, if it’s done right. And it is best if it is done right. Can’t explain it, but when you’ve had it, you’ll know.
Great, you got me thinkin’ about it now.
1. If I had a girlfriend and she performs oral sex on someone else other than me, or someone else performs oral sex on her, I would feel like she cheated on me on a sexual level.
2. I think that tasting pussy (or cock, if you’re a girl) requires a deeper level of intimacy than even regular sex. I mean, have you ever been afraid of finding an unpleasant surprise if you went down? If we don’t know the level of hygiene of the other person we might want to wait a bit longer until we go down on them, but you can always fuck, no problem.
3. If I go down on you you’ll definitely feel like you had sex.
My answer: Yes.
Sometimes they call me Sexar.
Ima go fundamentalist on you: the act itself is putting your mouth on someone’s genitals. To me, that is as sexual as you get. I still haven’t been squirted on… how sad?!
You girls should do a blog about squirting. I didn’t really believed it… Until I was squirted on. It was niiice! Hahaha.
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This whole debate is just splitting hairs…..
…. unless you’re shaved/waxed. ZING!
No ‘hair-splitting’ for this chick! WAX ON…RIP OFF!
All I’m saying on this one is 37!!?!!!?!!!