What are the pros and cons of dating/sleeping with a married man?
Far: Pro: He’s married, so you don’t have to marry him…
Jen: Sounds like trouble to me…
TechBabe: No PROS. Tons of CONS! And if you really need that spelled out for you, then you’re just as dense as the married fucktard. But here are a few CONS to get your pea-sized brain working:
- Con: HE’s MARRIED!
- Con: Drama, drama, drama (unless your life is so boring it could use the stimulation).
- Con: You might get attached. Don’t go into it thinking he’s going to leave his wife for you (unless he’s really hung and can’t live off of a box of No. 2 pencils any longer).
- Con: HE’s MARRIED! (I think I said that already. But you get the point.)
But that’s just me. I’m not one to judge. Date away…(KARMA’s a BITCH)…Happy Married Man dating!
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> Con: Drama, drama, drama (unless your life is so boring it could use the stimulation).
If your life is THAT boring, there’re plenty of single men out there to provide that stimulation. I’ll volunteer for duty!
Pro: More sex for me.
To answer this question we have to ask, “What is marriage really?” It’s a legal document where you file a joint tax return. Also you report it in the census. Marriage in American isn’t sacred by any means. This is the same place that had the show “Who Wants To Marry A Millionaire?” Why do people really get married? Society is pressuring them when they get to a certain age and to justify accidentally getting knocked up. Women get married to fulfill some childhood dream and most don’t care who it’s with as long as they get the wedding and the presents. Men get married cause they don’t want to break up and to shut her up when they start pressuring them. If the marriage is broken enough for one person to cheat, then what’s the point? I’m the girl that everyone cheats on their girlfriends with (telling me after the fact), so is it really that far fetched to hook up with a married guy?
Hear hear.
So why bother? I agree w you 200%! A ring or a financial contract isn’t going to stop a married woman fr sucking cock or a married man for eating sushi. And because of this, the word is taboo in my world.
I’ll just fuck who I want to fuck and not ask any questions. But that’s just me.
I think as long as the sex just stays sex then it’s okay. That just means he isn’t getting fulfilled at home, but when emotions get involved then you are really in trouble and things can get messy. There are a lot of variables involved and I think it’s depends on a case by case basis.
If all you need is a low drama shag every now and then, this is an ideal situation. If someone starts getting attached, then everyone else will probably want some popcorn to watch the fireworks with.